What I’d like to do for you, Christina, and the listeners is talk about what goes on in a man’s mind when he friend zones a girl. I have friend zoned women before and I have been friend zoned before. Why do I say that? I have been on both sides of the equation when it comes to the friend zone. What do I mean by that? I would liken it to trying to get an ex-boyfriend back if you cheated on him. To be honest, being in the friend zone is probably one of the worst positions you can find yourself in if you’re going to launch a “get your ex back” campaign. It puts you in a position where you really don’t have a great shot of getting him back. He’s the one who could potentially be friend zoning you. You’re obviously the one with the feelings. Let’s put you and your ex-boyfriend in these roles. ![]() The other person doesn’t like the person with the feelings. What you have here is a friendship where one person has severe strong feelings for the other person. The other person does not reciprocate those feelings back. One person has feelings for the other person. What is it? How do you define the friend zone? The way I define it is that there are two people in some type of relationship. We’ll get to your questions about the no contact rule in a second.įirst, let’s talk about the friend zone. I’m going to tailor it towards your situation and give you an idea of what you need to be doing to go forward. I would like to make this episode specifically about how to get out of the friend zone if you find yourself in it. You fear that your ex is going to place you in the friend zone with the way things are going right now. I think the bigger issue here is the friend zoning fear that you brought up. Number one has to do with the no contact rule. When I listened to your situation, there are two main points that you brought up that I want to cover today. Thank you for messaging me and leaving a voicemail, Christina. Wouldn’t that push him away? Is there any way to restart the no contact rule at this point? Thanks so much.” I don’t want to give him a reason to think that I’m trying to manipulate him or that I’m cold-shouldering him because I’m angry. I’m definitely not one for creating drama. I can’t help but think that if I suddenly just start ignoring him, he’d see it as me being a drama queen. How do I restart the no contact rule at this point? I’m also well aware that we’re not on the same page about this. We’re on “good terms.” But I’m afraid I’m putting myself in the friend zone. My concern is that I broke the no contact rule a week and a half into the breakup. At this point, I’ve come to terms with it and have been actively taking steps to improve my own wellbeing. My boyfriend of a year and four months broke up with me about three weeks ago. However, I do have a concern about the no contact rule. ![]() I’ve been taking in everything you’ve said. Your articles and ebook are so eye opening. What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Take the quiz Today we’re going to hear from Christina, a woman who is afraid that she’s putting herself in the friend zone with her ex-boyfriend. We need those reviews to survive and keep going. I know it seems like I’m making a big deal out of that, but that’s because it is a big deal. It would mean so much to me and the brand. We really need those reviews to keep this podcast thriving and surviving. Just a little side note before we get started, if you haven’t already gone to the iTunes page for the Ex-Boyfriend Recovery Podcast and left a review and subscribed, please do so. Welcome to Episode 12 of the Ex-Boyfriend Recovery Podcast. ![]() Sometimes the girl who is willing to walk away holds all the power. Just mess with his brain as much as you can. I gave a pretty good example of how to do this in the episode above.īe into him one moment and then repulsed by him the next. To recap, it cuts off the emotional support he is expecting from you and raises your value in his eyes.Īh the good ole reverse psychology tactic.Įssentially you want to treat your ex boyfriend like a gay best friend. In this episode I discuss why the no contact rule is so effective in a “friend zone” situation. What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Take the quiz How To Get Out Of The “Friend Zone” With An Ex Boyfriend
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